A scar in Your Life ?
Broken Affair. May be a common happening in the Western World, but not so common in the Eastern side, particularly in the subcontinent. The way, life changes after a broken affair, differs greatly from the west to east.
In the Western World, in which, most of the countries are well developed, family bonds are a bit loose. Children are given more freedom, freedom to think, to act and to lead their life in their own way. Wet dreams are not the only thing that come with teenage in this part of the World. Love joins. Each human, is given freedom to choose, his/her love. With the same ease with which it comes, it breaks, at least in most of the cases. It does hurt, but does not kill. The two involved, break on mutual agreement, and even be good friends for the rest of their lives. In this part of the World, a broken affair is simply, count++.
But in the other side of the Globe, where, "A Dinner and a Date" are not part of daily routines, a broken affair means a lot. Family bonds are always around our necks and freedom to lead our own lifes are meagre, if not null. Even, some believe, teenage love is a disgrace to the family, the so-called traditionalists hate teenage love, to the core. When a daughter is in love, arrangements to get her married to some one else, will out run Schumacher. Arranged marriage is always at work. Hoping that, they are doing good, parents end up leading their children's life. In such a setup, chances for a teenage love to succeed is minimal. Here, a broken affair, is not a decision by the two involved, but an order of the surroundings. Most of us never love, and those who do, do not succeed always. As a result, teenage love, ends up as a battle between the involved and their families.
How does it feel to be in such a situation ? Well, some of them kill themselves (a absolutely foolish decision), some of them lose interest for their lives and end up beggars (even a worser one), some of them lead life, just for the sake of living (really because of the fear to die), they laugh to the outside World and cry within. All these believe that, they had lost everything in life. Had it been broken by themselves, they could have come back to normal terms. But, you got no decision to make in your own life here. They end up losing everything they have gained for the past twenty years. they fail to reward their hardwork.
But, they are not to be blamed for everything, because i tell you, it really hurts and hurts deep. I mean it. You are looked down, by your society, your friends and even your family. Every one believes, you have been a fool to go through such horrible things in life. What they fail to realize is that, you had a lot of faith. They fail to console you or back you up. Instead they add coal to the fire. When, everthing around you tells you are unfit to live, the same impression falls upo you. You forget to realize your past and fore see your future. You fail to value, your life of the past twenty years. You end up bad. the worst thing is, You never know, whether it was the affair or the your surrounding, that left a scar in your life.
But, let me tell you this also. There are also a very few people, who throw these things to their back and return back to their normal lives. They learn to live with pain, they learn to keep it down. Because they knew something. The scars left by the broken affair will be heeled by their next love. They know they have been loved and so, they will be !
And to all opposers of teenage love out there, I'm really sorry to say this. But, I don't know why you live at all. Better, leave those, to live, who want to live !
In the Western World, in which, most of the countries are well developed, family bonds are a bit loose. Children are given more freedom, freedom to think, to act and to lead their life in their own way. Wet dreams are not the only thing that come with teenage in this part of the World. Love joins. Each human, is given freedom to choose, his/her love. With the same ease with which it comes, it breaks, at least in most of the cases. It does hurt, but does not kill. The two involved, break on mutual agreement, and even be good friends for the rest of their lives. In this part of the World, a broken affair is simply, count++.
But in the other side of the Globe, where, "A Dinner and a Date" are not part of daily routines, a broken affair means a lot. Family bonds are always around our necks and freedom to lead our own lifes are meagre, if not null. Even, some believe, teenage love is a disgrace to the family, the so-called traditionalists hate teenage love, to the core. When a daughter is in love, arrangements to get her married to some one else, will out run Schumacher. Arranged marriage is always at work. Hoping that, they are doing good, parents end up leading their children's life. In such a setup, chances for a teenage love to succeed is minimal. Here, a broken affair, is not a decision by the two involved, but an order of the surroundings. Most of us never love, and those who do, do not succeed always. As a result, teenage love, ends up as a battle between the involved and their families.
How does it feel to be in such a situation ? Well, some of them kill themselves (a absolutely foolish decision), some of them lose interest for their lives and end up beggars (even a worser one), some of them lead life, just for the sake of living (really because of the fear to die), they laugh to the outside World and cry within. All these believe that, they had lost everything in life. Had it been broken by themselves, they could have come back to normal terms. But, you got no decision to make in your own life here. They end up losing everything they have gained for the past twenty years. they fail to reward their hardwork.
But, they are not to be blamed for everything, because i tell you, it really hurts and hurts deep. I mean it. You are looked down, by your society, your friends and even your family. Every one believes, you have been a fool to go through such horrible things in life. What they fail to realize is that, you had a lot of faith. They fail to console you or back you up. Instead they add coal to the fire. When, everthing around you tells you are unfit to live, the same impression falls upo you. You forget to realize your past and fore see your future. You fail to value, your life of the past twenty years. You end up bad. the worst thing is, You never know, whether it was the affair or the your surrounding, that left a scar in your life.
But, let me tell you this also. There are also a very few people, who throw these things to their back and return back to their normal lives. They learn to live with pain, they learn to keep it down. Because they knew something. The scars left by the broken affair will be heeled by their next love. They know they have been loved and so, they will be !
And to all opposers of teenage love out there, I'm really sorry to say this. But, I don't know why you live at all. Better, leave those, to live, who want to live !
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